Tuesday, June 7, 2011

The Words I Wish He Never Meant

The worse thing happened early this morning. I lost the man I love. He is a great man who has helped me though some tough times and so much more than I can express in words on a screen.

I have wanted to text him no less than 1000 times already. I have looked at my phone several times to see if he changed his mind… to see if he wanted to tell me he made a mistake leaving me. As you can guess it has not happened.

I feel like the walls are closing in on me. I don’t know where to turn.

Part of me does not want to bother him with a text...that would be pathetic.

The other part of me is screaming and crying to stand up and fight for him, don’t let him go.

…and I don’t know which part is right.


I was supposed to go see him in a few weeks and I would do anything to just be in his arms again where I feel so safe and happy.

I should have loved him more, yet I don’t know how that is possible. I respect him for being honest with me about his feelings. So I guess I am supposed to let him go since that is what he wants.

I guess it is just hard for me because I feel like I am a good person and deserve to be happy too, but I just don’t see that happening without him.

I really don’t know what to do… I was kidding myself when I thought I could be everything he ever wanted and needs

The only thing I do know for certain is… my heart, just leave it broken; some things are just better that way. Unless he comes and picks up the pieces I will not need it.


6 comments:

  1. I am so sorry that you are hurting. I wish I could make it better. *Hugs*

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  2. Joker: Thank you, but I don't think anything is ever going to make it better.

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  3. Let it be. Feel your pain, learn from it and live in the now not the what if. No one can change a past and no one can totally shape a future but you can live right now as you are, heal as you are able and see what this day brings to you.

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  4. The Walking man - I will do the best I can, it is easier to read than to do.

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  5. if it just happened yesterday you are still really raw. Broken hearts suck, and it's hard to heal. How long was the relationship? I'm thinking of you.

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  6. CityMom: 2 years. He is really a great guy.

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