I never did understand how come some women fake it. I mean I have faked a headache before instead of saying “I’m just not that into you” but I don’t fake orgasms. I just don’t feel like giving credit when credit is not due.
I asked a friend at work if she ever faked it, and she said she had… she went on to say that men are babies and if you don’t feed their ego, as in, you are best and biggest lover I have ever had… they just don’t perform well anymore. She said men also think if you can’t orgasm during sex there is something wrong with you, not them. It couldn’t possibly be that only 50% of women orgasm during sex. Men will never call women out for faking it because that would mean reality would get in the way of their “I am the best lover on the planet” ego.
I asked a male his perspective on the whole faking it thing and he said who cares, I mean as long as he gets off and it feels good why would he waste time trying to figure out if she faked it or not.
I am sure you have heard it before:
Women might be able to fake orgasms.
But men can fake whole relationships.
I have never faked it either. It seems so pointless, because if you pretend to like something, you can't just go later on and "Yeah, that's not working for me" ya know. I'm the one who says "I don't think I'm gonna cum this time" without putting anything behind it, sometimes it's just like that. Stress, a lot on my mind, tired, drunk, etc, can make it impossible to come. Then again, I don't need to care a lot, because I'm blessed with easy comings. Which kind of gives credit to guys that are bad in bed but make me come anyways. Not good either!
ReplyDeleteit would honestly offend me more if a girl faked it. My first serious relationship, I made her swear she would never fake it, haha. I just didn't wanna go on thinking I was doing something awesome if I really wasn't, ya know?
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